I regret the fact that I got greedy. I told my parents I wanted a man that would bring home a certain amount of pay package. Probably if I were to find someone, I wouldn’t have found a man who would have earned that much money. Now I feel bad that I put such a condition.
If I get a feeling that I am not welcomed somewhere or if a friendship is not going to work out, I just stay away so it has never led to relationships turning sour. But then this is not friendship, because in true friendship this doesn’t happen.
I got married to a South-Indian. When I go to Banaras, people say I got married to a Madrasi. I don’t know…people still take time to understand that we are all the same. It doesn’t matter where you were born. That way, even my husband’s side can call me a North-Indian…
