Being with my kids gives me a high. No matter what stress or tensions I have, once I enter the house the kids are just jumping around me like little puppies, and that makes everything bearable. They look beyond the good, the bad or ugly, and see me as what I am.
I find it extremely difficult to make friends with them or hang out with them because it affects me when they put “outsiders” in boxes and are very judgmental. I even tried introducing the term jingoism to them.
I lost my virginity too late, at 25, with an office colleague. That was actually a friends-with-benefits kind of situation. We were sitting at my place when we started doing it. I didn’t initially tell her that I was a virgin.
